2024年1月inHIM系列 | 堅強 Be Strong
2023，你過得累嗎？是否常常臉上掛著「我不累」、「我很好」、「我可以的」…的表情，努力讓身邊人感受到「我很堅強」，你過去的堅強，有多少是真的？到底堅強有多難？有人說：「成年人的堅強，其實很脆弱。脆弱到一件小事，一句歌詞，就可以粉碎他所有的偽裝。
In 2023, are you feeling tired? Do you often put on a face of "I'm not tired", "I'm fine", "I can handle it" to make those around you feel that "I'm strong"? How much of your past strength is real? How difficult is it to be strong? Some say, "The strength of adults is actually very fragile. Fragile to the point that a small thing, a lyrics from a song, can shatter all their pretense.”
很喜歡堅強這個詞的解釋，「堅固、不可摧毀、不動搖；使堅強」。多少次，我們的堅強只剩下虛有其表的空殼，一擊即破。聽過一句這樣的話：「有時候唯一能改變故事的結局，就是進到別人的故事裡面。」 兩個人總比一個人好，因為二人勞碌同得美好的果效。若是跌倒，這人可以扶起他的同伴。我們常鼓勵自己，鼓勵別人要堅強，卻忘記開放自己最軟弱的那一面讓別人進入，害怕被貼上「懦弱、無能、沒用」…的標籤，越隱藏，越害怕，越害怕，越隱藏.....網絡中出現了一群「最熟悉的陌生人」，評論區的點贊成了相互取暖相互理解的「秘密基地」。
I really like the explanation of the word "strong" - "firm, indestructible, unshakable; to make strong". How many times is our strength just an empty shell, easily shattered? I've heard a saying like this: "Sometimes the only way to change the ending of a story is to step into someone else's story." Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. We often encourage ourselves and others to be strong, but forget to open up our own weaknesses to let others in, afraid of being labeled as "weak, incapable, useless"... The more we hide, the more afraid we become, and the more afraid we become, the more we hide... The internet has seen a group of "familiar strangers" who have created a "secret base" in the comments section, where they support and understand each other.
所有堅強的產生都源於內在的韌性，挖掘隱密的內在，敢於脆弱，敢於軟弱，就如同鍛鍊肌肉，鍛鍊是一個循序漸進的過程，剛開始的幾天注定又酸又痛，也是最想放棄最難堅持的時刻，這卻是實現肌肉記憶的必經之路，同樣地，勇於面對自己的軟弱，不失去盼望，從內在勝過每一個環境，轉化成堅強的力量。
All strong resilience comes from inner strength. By exploring our hidden inner selves, daring to be vulnerable and soft, we can develop resilience just like training our muscles. Training is a gradual process, and the first few days are always painful and challenging, making it the hardest time to persevere and the most tempting to give up. However, this is the necessary path to building muscle memory. Similarly, facing our own weaknesses with courage, not losing hope, and overcoming every challenge from within can transform them into a source of strength.
你有勇氣終結扭曲式的逞強陷阱，收穫真堅強，實現內在的獲勝，成為你的「核心力量」，靠著那堅強的愛，改寫故事的結局。
You have the courage to end the twisted trap of stubbornness, harvest true strength, achieve inner victory, and become your "core strength" by relying on that strong love, rewriting the ending of the story.
1月，inHIM推出「堅強Be Strong」系列，願你坦然無懼，經歷堅強的愛，將軟弱轉化成堅強的力量，化軟弱為喜樂。
In January, inHIM launched the "Be Strong" collection, wishing you fearlessly experience strong love, transforming weakness into strength, turning weakness into joy.
